The best way to let a guy know that you're not interested is to be very hard to please. Sure, a lot of them will like it and will attempt to rise to the challenge but if you do it right, they will give up.
The obvious way to be hard to please is to be high maintenance but that's not so effective. Sure, it might bleed their bank accounts dry but what if the guy that likes you has a bit of money to burn? Also girlfriend, you don't want to be called a golddigger. You don't want to turn off the actual men that you do like. You have a reputation to maintain. And these guys talk. They gossip more than women in a beauty salon.
The most effective way to be hard to please is to always aim for the middle. Borrowing the concept of Julia Roberts and Cameron Diaz in the film "My Best Friend's Wedding," don't be creme brulee but don't be jello. Be somewhere in the middle. In the grander scheme of things, who knows what the middle really is. Heck, you might not even know what that is.
The key is to make him feel frustrated with you. Make him feel that he can't give you what you want because you don't even know what you want. But you do, it's just not him. If you don't want to hurt his feelings, keep his ego intact. Make him believe that it was his idea to end things in the first place.
Disclaimer: This is not the way I normally do things but some guys don't take no for an answer. This is my second to last move when an upfront refusal didn't work. I have done it more than once and in all times, they have been successful -- at least for me.
The obvious way to be hard to please is to be high maintenance but that's not so effective. Sure, it might bleed their bank accounts dry but what if the guy that likes you has a bit of money to burn? Also girlfriend, you don't want to be called a golddigger. You don't want to turn off the actual men that you do like. You have a reputation to maintain. And these guys talk. They gossip more than women in a beauty salon.
| Source: cheezburger.com |
The most effective way to be hard to please is to always aim for the middle. Borrowing the concept of Julia Roberts and Cameron Diaz in the film "My Best Friend's Wedding," don't be creme brulee but don't be jello. Be somewhere in the middle. In the grander scheme of things, who knows what the middle really is. Heck, you might not even know what that is.
 |
| Source:memecrunch.com |
The key is to make him feel frustrated with you. Make him feel that he can't give you what you want because you don't even know what you want. But you do, it's just not him. If you don't want to hurt his feelings, keep his ego intact. Make him believe that it was his idea to end things in the first place.
 |
| Source: memeshare.net |
Disclaimer: This is not the way I normally do things but some guys don't take no for an answer. This is my second to last move when an upfront refusal didn't work. I have done it more than once and in all times, they have been successful -- at least for me.
posted from Bloggeroid
No comments:
Post a Comment